So last night I had a dream about James. For whatever reason we were hanging out and I had brought him a gift. We started to fight and yell and we both stormed out of the house. He looked at me and said "you're so stupid, you don't even realize..." and then turned to walk away. I got furious, told him I knew everything, that he was a tool, and threw the gift at him and stormed away to my car. I then woke up because my alarm went off...but man I was seriously still huffy. When I woke up I was sweaty and my pillows were all over the floor and my heart was racing because I was so pissed off. It took me like 15 minutes to get over being angry even though it was only a dream. First of all I had to realize it was just a dream...then I was angry because why the eff did I dream that?
I took the bits and pieces I remember from the dream and grabbed the "symbols" from an online dream dictionary...here's what I got:
Gift: To dream that you are giving a gift signifies your generosity towards others. Alternatively, you may be trying to express some feeling or have something awkward to say that has to be carefully packaged. If you are showering someone with gifts, then it indicates that you are being overly pushy with your advice. Or that you are trying to hard to be accepted. If you are buying or giving someone expensive gifts, then it symbolizes the sacrifices you are making for that person. You want to make them feel important.
Fighting: To dream that you are in a fight indicates inner turmoil. Some aspect of yourself is in conflict with another aspect of yourself. Perhaps an unresolved or unacknowledged part is fighting for its right to be heard. It may also parallel a fight or struggle that you are going through in your waking life.
Yelling: To dream that you or someone is yelling represents repressed anger that needs to be expressed. If you are yelling and no one hears, then it suggests that you are being overlooked in some waking situation. You feel that your voice does not matter or that your opinion does not count.
Throwing: To dream that you are throwing something indicates that there is someone or something that you need to rid yourself of from your life. Consider the object that you are throwing. Alternatively, the dream may be a pun that you are "throwing" or fixing a game or situation. Are you working against the objective?
Ex: To dream about your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend or ex-husband/wife, that you and your ex are fighting or that you and your ex got back together again suggests that something or someone in your current life is bringing out similar feelings you felt during that relationship with your ex. The dream may be a way of alerting you to a similar behavioral patterns in your current relationship. What you learn from that previous relationship may need to be applied to the present one so that you do no repeat the same mistakes. Alternatively, you may be reflecting on the positive experiences and good times that you shared with your past love. Dreams of getting back together with your ex or of your ex wanting to get back together with you may not necessarily be a reflection of reality. This dream may be triggered by some major change in your current relationship and how far you have come from those past relationships.
Hot damn the subconscious mind is an effed up thing!
Oh and Melissa, I thought you might find this tidbit interesting in regards to a dream you recently had... Broken Bones: To dream of broken bones represents the discovery or realization that that there is a weakness in your plans or in your thinking. Your dream may call for your immediate attention to a particular situation or relationship.
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